Keep your relationship alive

We are created to be social beings. The apex of this is the marital or partner relationship. Keeping it alive is not easy but it is not impossible. It has some very basic ingredients for success. Read the following and share yours!

clipped from www.helpguide.org A strong, healthy relationship can be one of the best supports in your life. Good relationships improve your life in all aspects, strengthening your health, your mind and your connections with others as well. However, it can also be one of the greatest drains if the relationship is not working. Relationships are an investment. The more you put in, the more you get back. Love and relationships take work, commitment, and a willingness to adapt and change through life as a team. Learn about ways to keep a healthy relationship strong, or work on repairing trust and love for a relationship on the rocks. Love relationship help tip 1: Keep physical intimacy alive Love relationship help tip 2: Spend quality time together Love relationship help tip 3: Never stop communicating Love relationship help tip 4: Healthy relationships are built on give and take Love relationship help tip 5: Expect ups and downs

What’s your emotional trigger?

We all got one! Some of us have a “hair-line” trigger and blow at the littlest things. More importantly, for marketing, what are you using in your copy writing?

clipped from www.entrepreneur.com Once you identify the target audience for your marketing messages, you need to consider which emotional triggers you can connect to those messages. Following are 10 common emotional triggers that you can tie into your marketing messages to make the sale. Fear: Fear is an emotion that can be used in a wide variety of marketing messages. Insurance companies often appeal to the emotion of fear with messages like “Don’t get caught with too little insurance.” Guilt: Consumers are easily affected by messages that trigger emotions of guilt. Nonprofit organizations use the guilt trigger effectively in copy such as “Don’t let them suffer anymore.” Trust: Trust is one of the hottest trends in marketing, and every company seems to be trying to jump on the trust bandwagon in their marketing messages. Financial companies are leading the way with messages like “no hidden fees.” Value: Belonging: Competition: Instant Gratification: Leadership: Trend-setting: Time:

What’s your emotional trigger?

We all got one! Some of us have a “hair-line” trigger and blow at the littlest things. More importantly, for marketing, what are you using in your copy writing?

clipped from www.entrepreneur.com Once you identify the target audience for your marketing messages, you need to consider which emotional triggers you can connect to those messages. Following are 10 common emotional triggers that you can tie into your marketing messages to make the sale. Fear: Fear is an emotion that can be used in a wide variety of marketing messages. Insurance companies often appeal to the emotion of fear with messages like “Don’t get caught with too little insurance.” Guilt: Consumers are easily affected by messages that trigger emotions of guilt. Nonprofit organizations use the guilt trigger effectively in copy such as “Don’t let them suffer anymore.” Trust: Trust is one of the hottest trends in marketing, and every company seems to be trying to jump on the trust bandwagon in their marketing messages. Financial companies are leading the way with messages like “no hidden fees.” Value: Belonging: Competition: Instant Gratification: Leadership: Trend-setting: Time:

Imperfection and Marketing (a Spiritual View)!

Fr. Richard Rohr is one of my favorite spiritual writers. In today’s meditation he looks at how we deal with imperfection in life. This is applicable in any area of our lives, especially work. You may not see work as spiritual but you do have to deal with your own attitudes and beliefs about imperfection. Fr. Rohr hints at the faulty ideas of dualistic thinking: Believing you are either all perfect or never perfect. One extreme of the other. That leads to paralyzed effort in my experience. What are your thoughts?

clipped from thirstyfishinfo.amplify.com Question of the Day: How does one incorporate imperfection? In a Navajo rug there is always one clear imperfection woven into the pattern. And interestingly enough, this is precisely where the Spirit moves in and out of the rug!  The Semitic mind, the Eastern mind (which, by the way, Jesus would have been much closer to) understands perfection in precisely that way.  The East is much more comfortable with paradox, mystery, and non-dual thinking than the Western mind which is formed by Greek logic. Perfection is not the elimination of imperfection, as we think.  Divine perfection is, in fact, the ability to recognize, forgive, and include imperfection!—just as God does with all of us.  Only in this way can we find the beautiful and hidden wholeness of God underneath the passing human show.  It is the gift of non-dual thinking and seeing, which itself is a gift of love, suffering, and grace.  In fact, this is the radical grace that grounds all holy seeing and doing.

Learn how Super Bowl Ads Fumbled…

Drew Whitman is often called the Ad Surgeon for his knowledge about what words sell and what does not. Here, he talks about how the Super Bowl Ads fumbled in a big way. Personally, I only watched the game for the ads. I only like a couple of them. What about you? Do you agree with Drew’s thoughts?

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clipped from thirstyfishinfo.amplify.com While this year’s Super Bowl advertisers demonstrated a knack for humor and entertainment, they also set a money-wasting example for struggling small business owners trying to make their own cash registers ring, a study found. California-based advertising consultant Drew Eric Whitman—author of CA$HVERTISING (Career Press)—said nearly all of this year’s Super Bowl commercials ignored all three of the foundational principles of creating effective advertising: 1) highlighting the product’s benefits, 2) distinguishing it from the competition, and 3) driving people to act. small businesses owners often take their cues from what the ‘big boys’ are doing. It’s a disastrous recipe to follow. Whitman explained that the classic advertising-success formula, “AIDA”—get Attention… stimulate Interest… build Desire… and ask for Action was largely ignored by Super Bowl advertisers with the recession mercilessly battering businesses in most every industry, ads need to focus on sales, not entertainment.

Have you Ego Surfed? This is essential to branding…

Have you ever ego surfed? You know, where you type in your own name into google and see what comes up? Hopefully, it was something appropriate. In the rise of the social media world, transparency is more and more the reality for you and your business. What people say about you has become real time and really important? It is literally changing marketing strategy on a global scale. Read and listen to this lesson from Hub Spot on how to use free tools to build your brand (you) by monitoring what is being said about you.

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clipped from blog.hubspot.com Do you find yourself overwhelmed by the enormous volume of information on the Web and the daunting task of organizing it all? If you answered “yes,” don’t worry! There are a slew of free tools to help monitor your brand on the Web, and learning how to use them will save you time and alleviate stress. Check out this video for a comprehensive introduction to some of the most widely used and effective brand-monitoring tools, and start monitoring your brand today! Watch Video 1.  The speed by which online comments travel multiplies their impact. 2.  The collection of individual comments gives you a more objective overview of prospects’ and customers’ perception of your products, and may help you improve them. 3.  These tools also help you stay up-to-date with new trends that you can integrate into your product design or marketing strategies for your existing products. new challenges such as staying focused in the midst of information overflow.

Should a Therapist “Friend” a Client on Social Networks?

When I talk to therapists about marketing via social media this is one of the biggest concerns that arise. It is a good concern! Dr. Zur does a great job explaining how to manage this issue. Additionally, my answer is that dual relationships is a problem in all contexts. Social media is just one more area that caution and boundaries is needed.

clipped from thirstyfishinfo.amplify.com How to respond when clients send “Friend Request” to their psychotherapists or counselors on Facebook, MySpace, LinkedIn, Twitter or other social networking sites Most therapists with Facebook or MySpace profiles cringe at the idea and dread the moment when a client posts a Friend Request. They wonder whether it is ethical to accept such a request, and they are concerned with the clinical and relational ramification of ignoring it. Questions for therapists to consider before responding to clients’ Friend Requests What is on the Facebook profile? Did the therapist use privacy controls to control access? What can a client view on the therapist’s profile? What is the Context of Therapy? Who is the client? Why did the client post the request? What is the meaning of the request? Where is therapy taking place? What does being a friend with this client mean for the therapist? What is the potential effect on other and potential clients? Read more at www.zurinstitute.com

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80/20 Rule: Pareto Principle

Apply the 80/20 Rule to Everything
Inspired by: Brian Tracy

The 80/20 Rule is one of the most helpful of all concepts of time and life management. It is also called the Pareto Principle after its founder, the Italian economist Vilfredo Pareto, who first wrote about it in 1895. Pareto noticed that people in his society seemed to divide naturally into what he called the “vital few,” the top 20% in terms of money and influence, and the “trivial many,” the bottom 80%.

The Great Discovery
He later discovered that virtually all economic activity was subject to this Pareto Principle as well.

For example, this rule says that 20% of your activities will account for 80% of your results. 20% of your customers will account for 80% of your sales. 20% of your products or services will account for 80% of your profits. 20% of your tasks will account for 80% of the value of what you do, and so on.

This means that if you have a list of ten items to do, two of those items will turn out to be worth as much or more than the other eight items put together.

The Greatest Payoff
Here is an interesting discovery. Each of these tasks may take the same amount of time to accomplish. But one or two of those tasks will contribute five or ten times the value as any of the others.

Often, one item on a list of ten things that you have to do can be worth more than all the other nine items put together. This task is invariably the one that you should do first.

The Most Valuable Tasks
The most valuable tasks you can do each day are often the hardest and most complex. But the payoff and rewards for completing these tasks efficiently can be tremendous. For this reason, you must adamantly refuse to work on tasks in the bottom 80% while you still have tasks in the top 20% left to be done.

Before you begin work, always ask yourself, “Is this task in the top 20% of my activities or in the bottom 80%?”

Getting Started
The hardest part of any important task is getting started on it in the first place. Once you actually begin work on a valuable task, you seem to be naturally motivated to continue. There is a part of your mind that loves to be busy working on significant tasks that can really make a difference. Your job is to feed this part of your mind continually.

Managing Your Life
Time management is really life management, personal management. It is really taking control over the sequence of events. Time management is control over what you do next. And you are always free to choose the task that you will do next. Your ability to choose between the important and the unimportant is the key determinant of your success in life and work.

Effective, productive people discipline themselves to start on the most important task that is before them. They force themselves to eat that frog, whatever it is. As a result, they accomplish vastly more than the average person and are much happier as a result. This should be your way of working as well.

Action Exercises
Make a list of all the key goals, activities, projects and responsibilities in your life today. Which of them are, or could be, in the top 10% or 20% of tasks that represent, or could represent, 80% or 90% of your results?

Resolve today that you are going to spend more and more of your time working in those few areas that can really make a difference in your life and career, and less and less time on lower value activities.

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Life in the Information Age!

Engage in a deep conversation with anyone in the western world for more than five minutes and you will find that they are feeling overwhelmed, isolated and frustrated. This is an unfortunately by-product of life in the information age.

Let’s take a closer look at these negative issues and develop an action plan to help you find more creativity, meaning and pleasure in life:

Overwhelm
The most common feeling for people today is that there is just too much – too much to do, too much information, too much email and too much to keep track of. There is an underlying sense that we are missing something important but we don’t know what it is. Our typical cultural response is to try harder – to “hunker in” and find a way to get it all done. We have a subtle feeling that because we can’t get everything done, we don’t deserve to rest, relax and rejuvenate.

Life Action Plan – Take a moment to reflect on this word “over-whelm.” How can you help yourself be “under-whelmed?” Imagine a time and place where you felt at complete peace. Let that memory surface and be experienced from head to toe. Take 5 deep breaths before moving on…

Isolation
As we attempt to work harder to keep up with it all, we spend less time connecting to the important people in our lives – our families, our friends and our close colleagues. There is a sense that even though we are more connected, we are more alone. There is less time for the fun and just being with other people with no agenda. There is a subtle feeling that because we can’t keep up, we are not worthy of the good feelings from connections to others. This has a counter productive effect because the truth is that we get our best results through our connections with other people. This leads to the final stage of the downward cycle.

Life Action Plan – Challenge this idea that you are not worthy because you can’t keep up. Make a list of all the things you have done today, this week, this month. Realize that you have done many things already. You have done enough. There is no value judgment tied to the number of things accomplished.
Your value lies in who you are, not what you do. Reach out to someone who respects that belief and values being with you. Spend time with them…

Frustration
In the face of escalating expectations – with all this technology we should be able to do more! – Combined with our increasing overwhelm and isolation it becomes almost impossible to get the results we desire; even harder to get the results demanded of us from others. The feeling of frustration among people is palpable and intense. There is a subtle sense of cynicism that nothing will really make a difference because we have believed that information was the savior and now we know that it is not. But we don’t know what is.

Life Action Plan – State 7 self-affirmations. Do not minimize them. Do not disqualify them. Embrace them and use these “strengths” to tackle the hard things in life. Move away from learning new things. Take time to do something physical. Move into nature and notice the little things. Play outside with your children. See how your children accept you unconditionally. Take meaning from that experience.

Has this helped you? Does this energize your daily life, your marketing efforts or your relationships? If so, share your story with us by clicking the comment link…

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